July 27, 2015

On Too Much

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"I've been making a list of the things they don't teach you at school. They don't teach you how to love somebody. They don't teach you how to be famous. They don't teach you how to be rich or how to be poor. They don't teach you how to walk away from someone you don't love any longer. They don't teach you how to know what's going on in someone else's mind. They don't teach you what to say to someone who's dying. They don't teach you anything worth knowing."-Neil Gaiman

July 7, 2015

The Big News

I had to wait a bit to share, since we still hadn't told all of our family or made it Facebook official. But I'm pleased now to tell you all that Mr. B got a promotion!!! Seriously, this guy has moved up through the ranks fast. We move almost every two years and are moving yet again!!

But, this time it's a little different. This time, we're choosing to go rather than being mandated by the company. We've decided to move back to Charleston. Our home went on the market last week and we've had several showings, so we're optimistic that it will sell quickly and we can transition back to the East Coast in a couple of months. 

It's very exciting and also a little bit scary. I moved to the Midwest when I was 18. Wichita was the site of many big starts for Chris and I. He started with the company he's with now, in Wichita. We got engaged and bought our first home there. We also had our second baby there, when we moved back for another one of Mr. B's promotions. We spent 18 months in Branson, after Wichita, and we got married and had our first child there. Kansas City (our home site now) is where I got my first professional writing gig and all subsequent freelance work since. I've met so many wonderful people, the boys have made good friends. These past two years have been some of the absolute best that we've spent out here in the heart of America. I don't regret it....

However, home is calling me back. I couldn't stay out here forever. The East Coast will always have my heart. The beaches, the people, the way of life...it's a different culture. It's my culture. 

For now, we wait for our home to sell and celebrate our last few months surrounded by all we've held dear here. 

The blog will transition as well, from our lives here to life back on the Coast. I've already been dreaming up new designs and thinking of all the places I want to take you when I get back. It'll be an adventure for YOU, too!! ;)

Thanks for sticking around, continuing to read and reaching out via email, Facebook and Instagram. As always, you guys are the BEST. xo

June 25, 2015

Getting Healthier with Amwell

*This is a sponsored post with Mums the Word Network and Amwell. All opinions are my own.*

Upon arriving back from vacation two weeks ago, I started to feel really tired. I assumed it was simply because I'd been so busy over the course of my three weeks in Charleston. Then the dreaded congestion began, with sinus pressure, recurrent cough and a swollen throat. How's that for summer fun?

As a work from home/stay at home mom, it's very difficult for me to schedule doctor's appointments for myself. I could bring the boys, but let's be honest, it's so much harder to focus on what the doctor is saying with two little ones bouncing off of the walls.

Does this look familiar??

That's where Amwell comes in! American Well is a service that allows you to see a doctor from the comfort of your own home or on the go. You can access it with your computer or through their convenient mobile app. It's both simple and affordable. 

American Well Physicians

There are many reasons using a web-based service like this is beneficial. Perhaps you're out of town and don't want to visit an Urgent Care or Emergency Room. Maybe you just want a second opinion. For me, it was about convenience. As I mentioned before, finding someone to watch the kids can be difficult at times. I just barely managed to squeeze in a doctor's appointment last Friday and know that I won't have the opportunity to go tomorrow. I'm still not feeling well and my symptoms have progressed and worsened in the last few days. Now I can also add high fever and chills to the list. It was necessary for me to follow-up with my illness and this is the easiest way for me to accomplish that, so that I can start feeling better, sooner.

It was very easy to sign up, too. I have to admit, I was a bit skeptical at first about using an online medical service, but it was more extensive than I thought. When you sign up, you're asked about your medical history, what your current symptoms are, your vitals (temperature, weight) and whether you're allergic to any medications. From there, you are provided an array of online physicians to peruse through. Their profiles provide credentials, such as where and how long they've been in practice, as well as their specialty areas. 

Amwell Physicians Profiles

Once you've picked your physician, you simply click "Start Visit" and you are connected as soon as they are available to see you. I only waited about 2 minutes before my visit began. 

My physician was wonderful. She asked me several questions about my doctor's visit last week, including what medications were prescribed, how long I'd taken them, etc. She also explained why I'm having recurrent symptoms, prescribed a new antibiotic and sent the prescription straight to my preferred pharmacy. 

I believe in the importance of in-person visits with a trusted physician. I do not think one should use this service as a primary means of receiving medical attention, long-term. I would however, use it again as needed, to supplement my current care. And as you can see, Amwell also provides diet and nutrition and psychology support as well. 

A typical visit is $49, but all Defining My Happy readers can use the code: LOVEAMWELL40 to get $40 off of their visit. 

Cheers to healthier days ahead!!

June 19, 2015

On Love / Vol 1

It's been so long since I've written here, that I'm not sure how to proceed anymore. Not that I haven't been writing at all; simply more to paper than anywhere else. A few months ago, I purchased this black moleskin notebook and told myself that I'd get back to basics. That I'd find the heart of writing again. As you may have noticed, my posts have been sporadic and mediocre at best. Simply put, I had to take a break. It was the little things, like wanting to put more focus back into my "real" life. Wanting to live more in the moment. I even stopped taking so many pictures, because it didn't feel authentic. The normal hum drum of life came as it always does and swept me away for a bit.

Then I went home. 

Back to Charleston, for three whole weeks. I went to the beach and walked along the Battery and took the kids bowling. I went rollerskating (sans kids) for the first time in 13 years and I watched my sister-in-law graduate high school. I conversed with my five year old niece about the latest fashion and watched her eyes sparkle as she spoke.

Several nights, I stood outside under the stars, listening to the crickets and frogs in the pond beside the house. The only constellations I found I remembered were the Big and Little Dipper, but I still reveled in that knowledge. I was brutally attacked by blood thirsty mosquitos and wore the proof like a badge of courage for days. I watched my boys laugh with their grandparents and aunts and uncles. 

He's not mad, there was glare from the sun. ;)

We caught a lizard and named him Batman. We caught a frog and named him Batman, too. Auntie let them name her new fish and they called him Snowman Frosty the Snowman Batman Ryland Bosse. We splurged on expensive and overly iced cupcakes downtown and I cursed the narrow streets and my terrible parallel parking skills. We waved to the horses carrying all of the tourists down cobbled roads. 

We visited Magnolia Gardens and rowed the canoe haphazardly around trees and plucked enormous water lilies as we passed by and pretended we were in The Notebook.

My best friend whisked me away to Charlotte for a Third Eye Blind and Dashboard Confessional concert at the Music Factory. The car maintenance light came on halfway there and we had to stop and pull out the manual in a Starbucks parking lot. We thought we weren't going to make it to the event, but then the maintenance light miraculously turned off and we made it just in time. I think about that long three hour drive back at midnight and how we pulled over into a deserted gas station parking lot and I said, "This is like the beginning of every horror movie I have ever seen", and she said, "shh. Let me sleep a minute." And when we finally got back on the road, we were so awake. It was 2 am and the conversation was so profound and suddenly the Universe made so much sense. I'll never forget that. 

There were hard moments too. I sliced open my finger one day, there were tears another, the boys misbehaved occasionally. I witnessed others' pain and fear and doubt. I learned about the lives you can't see on social media or hear across a cell tower. I was squished into a tiny sliver of the bed I shared with the boys and didn't sleep well much of the three weeks we spent, but I still felt better than I'd felt in a long time. 

You can't buy these things, these moments.

When I initially left for Charleston at the end of May, I was feeling so burnt out, so in need of something. Of what, I wasn't really sure. I hoped and expected to have all of these epiphany-like moments where everything would make sense. I romanticized that I'd get to the beach, my beach, and stand in the salty water and feel the current rushing against my legs and know the answers to all of the questions I hadn't been able to articulate. When I left, I was disappointed because I didn't feel like I knew any more then when I'd first arrived.

It took driving back across the country, just me and the boys, and shacking up in the middle of nowhere Kentucky and enduring torrential rain and toddler tantrums and about a billion "are we there yet's??" before it all started to sink in. It wasn't some bright light moment. It was a slow dawning. A creeping awareness of all that had transpired; not merely in that three weeks, but over the course of the last several years. Every mistake, every accomplishment, every time I didn't feel like getting up but did it anyway. Every time I chose kindness over cruelty, every moment that I offered and was offered forgiveness. All of these tiny specks gluing themselves together to make up all of what I see standing before the mirror every morning. 

I've been cowardly when I should have been brave, obstinate when I should have been fluid, quiet when I should have been loud. I've taken and been taken for granted. I've been less than appreciative when I should have been more so. I've said things I didn't mean, done things I shouldn't have, looked outward when I should have looked in. I haven't been perfect by any means. In fact, I've simply been human. 

And human is hard, sometimes. 

But those tiny specks are tinier still when compared to the times I've been good and kind and compassionate. When I've helped others, gone above and beyond, overlooked a personal injustice. Everything I've done is from a place of love. And sometimes that love manifests into other things like doubt, fear, unkindness. The core, still being that ever beating heart. Looking beyond myself, I can see the same rings true of most everyone.

I still have questions I can't articulate. But I do believe that I found the ultimate answer, in those three weeks back home. Seeing our families, spending time with friends, listening to the words not said, understanding that we are all flawed but trying. The undercurrent of it all was love. 

There are a lot of life changes coming soon and I can't wait to share them with you all. But for now, just know that I'm back. And it's good to be here once more. 

May 2, 2015

Dinner Made Simple with Hamburger Helper

As parents, we all know how busy life can get. I recently signed Landon up for soccer, which was a first unto itself. But then, I went and signed myself up to be assistant coach for his team! It was a great learning experience for me, both on and off the field. Our practices and games were set during dinnertime, often leaving me scrambling beforehand to whip something up or grabbing something on the way home. Luckily, a friend gave me an easy family dinner idea. Hamburger Helper; why hadn't I thought of that?!

It's a quick, simple, value meal. All you need is ground beef (or chicken) and you're set! 

Hamburger Helper Rebate

Not to mention, Hamburger Helper boasts a variety of dinner ideas that even the pickiest member of the family will enjoy. (Chris is more of a lasagna man, while I prefer Mexican)

Crunchy Taco Dinner

You can customize each dinner to your liking. The Crunchy Taco dinner is great as a salad, simply by adding fresh Spinach or Romaine. And if you love all things spicy like me, you could throw in some fresh or pickled jalapeƱos! 

Or, just eat as is- that works too ;)

Hamburger Helper Dinner

To make dinner even easier and more affordable, check out the Hamburger Helper Rebate. They're giving you FREE beef, to help you with the dinnertime scramble. 

Hamburger Helper Rebate

When life gets too busy, don't let dinner be just another item on the perpetual "to-do" list. Let Hamburger Helper give you a break!

Click below to learn more about the free beef rebate:

Hamburger Helper Rebate

* Thank you to Helper for sponsoring today’s post and inspiring me to try your Free Ground Beef Rebate!


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